•♥ " Jodoh itu urusan Allah. Sudah dicatat sejak azali lagi. Tetapi prinsipnya tetap satu dan satu itulah yang wajib kita fahami. Orang yang baik berhak mendapat jodoh yang baik. Cuma sekali-sekala sahaja Allah menguji orang yang baik mendapat pasangan hidup yang jahat seperti Nabi Lut mendapat isteri yang jahat dan Asiyah yang bersuamikan Firaun laknatullah.Jika takdirnya pahit untuk kita, terimalah sebagai ubat. Katalah, kita sudah berusaha menjadi orang yang baik dan kita telah pun bernikah dengan pilihan orang yang baik, tetapi jika takdirnya pasangan kita bermasalah… bersabarlah. Katakan pada diri bahawa itulah jalan yang ditentukan oleh Allah untuk kita mendapat syurga. Maka rebutlah pahala sabar dan redha seperti Nabi Lut dan Nabi Ayyub atau kesabaran seorang isteri bernama Siti Asiah " ♥• Pahrol

The effect of peer pressure

  Peer pressure kills individuality and gives rise to a set of people who  each other.The distinction between positive and negative peer pressure lies in analysis of the view of the masses. Much research has shown that peer pressure has a much greater impact on adolescent behavior .The effect of peer pressure are to a loss individuality,retards personal growth and low self-esteem.

      Firstly,the effect of peer pressure is a loss individuality.For example,they  laed to follow what your peer feel right. Their pressure can make  pass thought everthing they thing right.They tend to blindly imitate you adopt their taste of fashion clothing,hair,music and generic living.Its impact to loss you taste of life and force yourself to begin liking what they like. Loss of individuality can be the biggest setback anyone can suffer in his or her childhood. It is very important for children themselves to realize that it is never about fitting in a set mould of characters and skills.

      In addition,the effect of peer pressure is retard personal growth.For example,in the school,college or workplace the making friends is important and so is socializing.The  teenager spends many more of his or her waking hours with peers than with family members. The interaction is direct, and much more powerful than the influence of teachers and other authority figures.Adolescents often spend most of their daily  time with friend and owing to this vulnerable.

      Lastly,the effect of peer pressure is a low self-esteem.They tend to focus on the negative aspects of themselves as opposed to the more positive qualities of their personalities. They generally have very little regard for themselves and will often feel unworthy of being loved and accepted by others. A teenager with low self-esteem may end up making his or her self-esteem contingent upon a particular set of circumstances such as success in school or an activity of some sorts. Their self-esteem becomes contingent on the success or failure that they experience in what it is they are putting all their efforts into

       In conclusion,peer pressure to introduced at a very young age and young people can be influenced easier then mature adults.Their  are many negative impact  on life while and approach of looking at peer behaviour can act positively 

The effect of computer on our everyday lives

   Nowadays, Computer technology has made our lives a lot easier and convenient. The computer is considered as one of the most popular and fun form of entertainment.Always people also like to computer because they have many function. There many effects of computers on our everyday lives are effect on children, effect on education, and effect on healthy.

          Firstly, children are exposed to computers at an early age and some even children know more than their parents about computers. However, regular computer use can have some negative effects on children, especially those that frequently use computers for extended periods of time. Some children who frequently use the computer may be at risk for developing vision problems. Children can be even more susceptible than adult to developing eye discomfort, fatigue, headaches and blurred vision. This can cause increased stress on their vision and can potentially lead a child to needing glasses at an early age. These potential vision difficulties can also interfere in a child's ability to do schoolwork.

       Secondly, the effects of computer are effects on education. With the ever-expanding presence of computer in the education world, many wonder about the effects technology has on the learning process. People have used computational devices for centuries, but only since the relatively recent invention of electronic computers have they truly become necessary to maximum academic achievement. Students who do not respond well to traditional teaching methods often improve their grades through computer-assisted learning. Computers offer individualized learning when teachers do not have the time or resources to cater to specific student needs.

          Finally, Computers can both good and bad for us. Any useful thing can turn into a harmless one if you use it excessively. If you're at the computer all day, you may damage your eyesight and may also develop backache and cramps. You may also put on weight if you don't indulge in any outdoor activities but are always sitting working or playing games on your computer. Not just that it can also adversely affect your relations with your family, if you're spending too much time at your pc and none with them. So it's very important to keep a healthy balance in life and not to use anything too much. Computers should be used only for a few hours in a day, so you can give enough time to your family, studies and outdoor activities

        In conclusion, computer has many function to their child,teenager,and also many people. We as a human should think either it’s good to us or not. I believed that the computer has a many effect  in our daily.So anyone must to know when their using a computer.